Crush or Eyecandy???

Hey guys!!!
Its my first post here on my blog... So comments is most welcome here! :)
Well my main aim of this blog is to just share my thoughts about things that usually happen in our daily life and our thoughts about it. So I hope you guys like it and as I say before comments are most welcome down here. :)

Sooo...

My first Topic of this blog is Crush or Eyecandy?
Many of us have that one person who we absolutely admire. But is that just eyecandy or is that having a crush on that guy/girl?

Before that, what is the difference between Crush and Eyecandy? In my opinion an eyecandy is just someone that when u pass by him/her, he/she somehow attracts you. However a crush is someone that u just cant get enough of him/her. Its as though u just cant stop getting your eyes off him/her and just hoping that he/she notices you. Is that what I think the definition of crush is? Hehehe Anyone???

Anyways...
Having an eyecandy is not as bad as having a crush. Because honestly speaking I feel that having a crush will have a much more impact on your life, whereas an eyecandy is just someone that everyone would normally just flirt with and don't make much of an impact in your life.
You might be wondering why. Well to me having a crush does have a huge impact on life. This is because by having a crush can make u feel happy or just hurt you in a blink of an eye.

Let me give you an example of why it makes a huge impact on you. So here is a bit of my life. Not much just a bit.

I have a crush on this one particular guy that most girls would die to get. And this crush have the ability of making my hopes come true, or break my heart in an instant at any point of time. Why? Well this kind of feelings can go either into a relationship which I really hope for or break my heart in an instant when I see him with another girl. And this definitely will impact my life in anything and it scares me. Kinda scary isn't it?

Hahaha.. But did it ever cross your mind that having a crush comes from that person that you firstly have an eyecandy on? Did it? Think about it all starts from eyecandy to you seeing him/her almost everyday of your life to you talking to him/her all the way till you realise that you have a huge crush on him/her because of whatever reason you have.
Isn't it true?

Well some people say that a crush will only happen after 4 months of talking to that eyecandy of yours. Honestly I don't believe that at all. An eyecandy can be your crush at any point of time. It does not have to be at a certain time range that u are sure of calling it a crush. Does it? No? Maybe? Well it really depends on you. It really does. It really does not have to be the time range etc, etc.

So to all of you who really cant make up your mind if the person you like is an eyecandy or a crush, let me ask you something. Does that person make u smile like an idiot sometimes? Does that person makes your stomach flutter as though butterflies are in your stomach?
Or whenever you see that person with someone else and they are extremely comfortable with them, do you feel disappointed or jealous? Does all these fit in the category of crush? If it doesn't then maybe its just an eyecandy that u have yet to develop your feelings for.

All in all...

A crush or an eyecandy is just a category to describe your situation. And in order for you to be sure, all you have to do is to just follow your heart. Ask yourself this most important question to yourself: "How will he/she impact my life? Is he/she  going to be worth getting hurt by those little things called jealousy?" Once you have your answer, then decide it yourself. 

Don't get yourself troubled over small things if that person is not worth getting yourself hurt. Really don't. Look at that person first. If you are talking to that person, observe how he/she talks to you. Or how he acts around you. If you are not talking to that person, observe him instead. Look at the kind of guy/girls he/she spends time with. Maybe from there you will get your answers? Yes? No? How do you guys get your answers if he/she is worth the crush?
Comment below okay?? :)

Thus to all those who are going thru a massive crush, (not the celebrity kind of crush and is like me. XP)  don't get yourself hurt continuously if he/she is blind to see how good you are for him/her. And to those who have an eyecandy and is going thru the early stages of contacting and things like that, observe closely and see if he/she is worth the crush on. If not don't waste your time getting yourself getting hurt at the end of the day.

All of you readers, yes, ALL of YOU. All of you are beautiful and handsome in your own way. Don't waste time on someone who doesn't notice at how beautiful/handsome you guys are. Seriously. There are better fishes out there in the sea that can accept you for YOU. Don't continue having a crush on someone that wouldn't appreciate the beauty in you. Don't, because that person, I tell you, will NEVER have the same feelings you have towards him/her. Instead he/she will just take an advantage of you and if it goes too far you will, mark my words when I say this, YOU WILL get yourself hurt badly and for some, you will lose part of yourself because of this.

Thus thru this Post I hope all of you will be able to see things at a much clearer view.
If you guys have your own opinion on this post, feel free to comment down below aites?
Oh and yes I am still unsure of what my next post will be. Should it be "expectations of a contact and date" or "#relationshipgoals"? Which should I talk about first? Comment it down below so that I know what kind of opinion I should talk about first. :)

Till my next post lovelies. xoxo
sxlxntkxller. :)